Our family had increased to six with the birth of our fourth
child while living In Ozark. I was busy substituting for the city school system,
especially in the middle school to supplement my income. One day while
teaching, someone knocked on the classroom door and I opened it. There stood
Harris Winston and John Wiley English from the church in Elba, Alabama.
Before I could say anything but “hello”, they said, “You don’t have to do this,
come preach for us.” I hardly knew what to say to their request; but to make a
long story short, we did move to work with the church in Elba
in the summer of 1964. I shall never forget those two brethren who became dear
friends of mine and the day they found me in the middle school classroom.
Whistling 'Dixie'
We had never really lived ‘downtown’ before we moved to Elba but our house was located just off the square and we
were living in a ‘fish bowl’ for sure. One night at midnight I was awakened by
someone walking on the sidewalk in front of our house, and I even remember the
tune he was whistling! It was the song ‘Dixie’. I don’t know why I
remember this event, but I do. And I smile.
“Don't Look Ethel!"
Our youngest son was still in the ‘potty training’ period of
his life when all of a sudden he broke free from his mother’s grasp and ran out
the front door and around the house he ran! There you have it; the preacher’s
son streaking in his ‘birthday suit’ for all to see. His mother finally got
hold of him as quickly as she could and back in the house she fled with child
in arms!
“Did You Catch It?”
There were times that sister Ham and her daughter Nell would
keep our baby boy. One day, while he was playing with some toys in their home
across the street from ours, Nell said she was going to the bathroom
and do some work on the commode because it was constantly ‘running’. She was gone for some time and when she returned to the
room where our son was playing, he looked up at her and asked, “Did you catch it?”
You Shot Him Where?
Tim and Joel had been playing with friends down the street
when they returned home suddenly and into their bedroom they fled! Their faces
reflected great concern and both were nearly in tears. It might have been thought one of them was on the verge of certain death or critically
wounded. So as a worried mother would do, Virginia went into the bedroom and found
that the younger brother had his pants partially down and both were looking to
see if there might be blood showing. You see, the older brother had shot his
brother with a friend’s BB gun by accident (I think) and they were investigating
if there might be the need of a doctor. Where did our son get shot? It was the
same area of his body where Forest Gump (in the movie, Forest Gump) got shot during the Viet Nam war.
We are very glad he survived the ordeal and is still alive.
Elba Clipper, November 7 1968, 'Brainstorming With Ferrin Cox, Editor
“Minister Raymond, president of the Elba PTA, is not overly
fond of the song 'Harper Valley PTA' and his delightful five year old son has
gotten wind of this fact. He reportedly has told friends that his father was going
to ride in the Homecoming Parade with the secretary of the Harper Valley PTA
and she was going to wear a mini-skirt!” (For young people to appreciate this news
article, click HERE for a YouTube version. This chart topping song was recorded by Jeanie C. Riley in 1968.)
I've Been Running On The Levee
Elba was a unique town. Built along the Pea
River, it was joined by the White Water
Creek in the northern part of the town.
There is a legend that the people of the town had been told, by an old Indian, not to build in its present location because of a flooding problem. To prevent this, the Corp of
Engineers had built a levee three quarters around the town. The
preacher’s house was just across the street from the southern part of the
levee. One day I asked a young man to measure off one half mile for me. He did, and
that distance ended at the railroad trestle. I began by walking, worked up to jogging, and, when I got in pretty good shape, I began running as fast as I could
the last part of that half of a mile. I would arrive at home wet with sweat
(poor people sweat, rich people perspire). There were several homes next
to the levee and one day I didn’t run. Concerned, one of the neighbors inquired of my
health. I didn’t know that people were watching me run on that levee. I did
loose several pounds and was in pretty good physical shape for a preacher.
‘Redemption Center’
Right across the street, and in front of the church building,
was the Big R where you could buy ‘fast foods’. That establishment stayed
busy all the time. I believe it was a news reporter from the Dothan Eagle that
ate one day at the Big R and, as he looked at our building, he saw the sign with a
slogan I had placed there. It read 'REDEMPTION CENTER,
NO STAMPS REQUIRED'. Now only you who are older will remember the time when you
could collect green stamps and redeem them for some product you desired to
have. Well, the picture of that sign and slogan got on the Associated
Press (AP) and was published far and wide! In fact, I received cards and
letters from people who lived in various states stating they appreciated the
wording on the sign.
How Old Did You Say Your Son Was?
A teller at the bank where we began to do our business died suddenly shortly after we moved to Elba.
I believe she was only about 42 years old at the time of her death. As a matter
of courtesy and concern, I went to her home to pay my respect to the family
because she had been so nice to me. While in her home, I heard two elderly
ladies talking about the ages of their sons. One lady mentioned that her son
was born 6 months before the flood while the other lady explained that her son
was born sometime following the flood. Well, with my sense of humor, I was
almost ready to ask their ages but being the ‘new preacher’ for the church I
controlled myself and refrained from showing my ignorance and embarrassing the
ladies and others. You see, it was not ‘THE FLOOD’ Moses wrote about in the
book of Genesis. I learned soon afterwards that the older generation in Elba reckoned time before and after the March, 1929 flood that did so much damage to the downtown and residential areas.
“Will You Marry Me?”
You have to understand the setting and circumstance in which
I was asked this question. Virginia and I married in 1955, when I was asked this
question during the time we lived in Elba,
1964-69. I regularly visited the Elba
Hospital and one day
while I was walking down the hall, I was approached by a lady who worked there.
She knew me since I had been preaching in the area for a number of years and
she was a member of a nearby congregation. When she was right in front of me,
she stopped and asked without any explanation, “Will you marry me?” What could
I say?! I did answer her in the positive but I had to practice self-control
in warp speed because I did not want to embarrass her for asking me that
question. You see, I knew she was really asking me to perform the wedding
ceremony for the prospective husband and her. Sometimes a preacher has to think
quickly on his feet and not to answer unadvisedly!
‘Fall Back and Spring Forward’
I believe it was in 1966 that Daylight Saving Time began to
be observed in most of the states. The first Sunday it went into effect,
my, my, my ~ people were absolutely confused! We were living in a different
house at that time, located north of town on the Troy
Highway. I had a radio program on WELB that began
at 8:30 on Sunday morning. As I was passing our church building, on the way to
the radio station downtown, I noticed a car parked in the lot and recognized
that it belonged to Jim and Jessie Free. These good people knew that the Sunday
morning Bible classes began at 10:00 a.m. but for the life of them, they did
not know what time it was! They were determined to be present for the classes
even if it meant they were one and half hour early!
‘Lazy Susan’
I am not talking about a person but a part of a dining
table that revolves. It may have been the first time I had ever seen one and it
was in the home of Carolyn and Lister Brunson. The lower part of the table was
stable, that is, where your plate was located. The revolving part of the table
was somewhat higher and that is where the delicious food had been placed. So
the person would dish out the food of his choice, that was right in front of
her/him, and when all who were sitting at the table had done the same, then someone would slowly turn the table in order for another group of bowls to
be available for the fortunate person sitting at the table. In those days and
especially during gospel meetings, the visiting evangelist and the local
preacher and family would be invited to the homes of the members for a
delicious meal. And I must say that the ladies of the Elba
church were excellent cooks!